Sexual pleasure is a mysterious territory that remains to be explored. It’s like one of those jars of candies that can surprise you every time you pick a candy out of it. And as it goes, sometimes some flavours can leave a bitter taste in your mouth, while other times they can leave you wanting for more. All it requires is a will to experiment and a couple of bold steps, and you are most of the times you will be amazed by the outcome!
Whether you are doing it for the first time in your life or for the first time with someone, the act of sex involves intimacy and requires a degree of faith in your partner. It requires a degree of comfort and honesty, without which there’s no pleasure or fun.
So, ladies here’s a list of things that you should know before having oral sex with your partner:
1) You are not obligated to give oral sex
Like we said, oral sex is like a flavour of candies. You may like it or you might not like it at all. Either way, we suggest you try it once before you give up on it completely. And if you don’t like it, just remember that you are not obligated to give it even if you get it.
2) Not everyone likes it
It’s true ladies. Some guys would like you to go down on them while others would prefer to have you by their sides. The point is, not all guys like it. It’s not always because they are not good at it but because they are not comfortable with it.
3) There’s no right way
When it comes to oral sex, there is no right or wrong way. Some like wild, some like it slow. Some like to experiment, while others like it the conventional way (whatever that is). Just know that there’s no fixed ‘technique’ of doing it.
4) All vaginas have a smell
Your vajayjay has a natural smell which changes with your hormonal cycle or with what you eat. You are not supposed to smell like a citrus fruit or a flower down there, so there is no need for you to be extra conscious. Of course, if a pungent smell persists it can indicate the presence of a bacterial infection. Just consult a doc!
5) You can still get an STD
If you think that you can get a sexually transmitted disease only by intercourse, then you are wrong. STDs can be transmitted by bodily fluids, which means that you can get an STD by having oral sex. So take proper precautions.
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6) It’s ok to give directions
Unlike what some people might think, it’s ok to give directions, especially if you are having oral sex with your partner for the first time. It’s a fun activity and some directions won’t anyone. Would they?
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7) It’s ok to feel awkward at first
Ladies, if you are doing it for the first time, it’s ok to feel a bit awkward. The act of oral sex requires a degree of comfort with your partner and sometimes, it takes longer than usual to get there.
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